Why go to an online dating service like Match.com and pay an arm and a leg when you can meet women on Facebook for free? Facebook is a great place to meet women and there is no inherent pressure to find a match. The serendipity of finding and meeting women through Facebook is far more romantic anyway.
There are some tried and true techniques to go about attracting women on Facebook and if done right, many women who will swarm to you. All you need to do is present yourself in the right way.
It is really not that hard. If you are looking to hang out, date or even get married it all begins on Facebook with only a few simple steps.
1. Take a photo that shows you in the best possible light
Your photo is your introduction, and you have only one chance to make a first impression. Posting your best photo is a must.
How to take the best photo possible:
Make sure you are smiling in your photo. A smile says you are friendly and allows the woman to imagine having a good time with you. Studies show that women are attracted to a man that is smiling. When a woman sees a photo of you smiling they will imagine that you are smiling at them. Most of all, a smile lights up the face and makes you look joyful. This is attractive!
Taking many pictures is another tip you can adopt from professional photographers, shooting many photos gives you better odds of getting a great one. After taking a number of shots, you can choose the best one.
2. Have unique and interesting photos in your albums
Studies show that women are most likely to choose a prospective mate who is unique in some way. Something unique will make you memorable and can work as a conversation icebreaker. Keeping this in mind be sure to have photos in your albums that reflects what you are passionate about. If your hobby is camping, make sure that is clear. If you enjoy traveling make sure that you have photos that show your excursions. Do you like hiking? Have a shot of you out on the trail. Having interests show that you are living a good life and Ms. Right wants to live a good life too.
3. Post topics that are interesting to woman.
Here is a list of women friendly topics that will work to attract women to your Facebook page:
- Music
- Nature
- Animals
- Travel
- Current Events
- Books
- Movies
- Food and Dinning
- Cooking
- Art
These topics are typically of interest to both woman and men because of this they make you appealing and they also work as conversation starters. I know of one man who attracts a lot of women on Facebook by posting pictures of great artwork, the women flock to his page because they love the selections and they love to comment about the artwork that he has chosen.
By contrast, he also posts news articles related to current events, these posts attract both men and women and lead to some heavy and heated discussions. These news article postings aren’t quite as good at getting the ladies to be attracted in quite the same way.
4. Fill out Your Profile
As a woman, I have landed on so many ghost pages of men on Facebook. The man would post an attractive photo and send me a message. I was curious to see who they were and found next to nothing filled out on their page. I came to find out later that they were scammers; I am not sure what they were looking for. Getting messages from an attractive man is flattering, but then going and finding an empty page is a turn off.
To avoid this scenario, fill out your basic information like where you live, where you were born. Then go on and add some movie and music interests. If you don’t take the time to do this then you are cutting yourself short.
5. Topics to Avoid or Minimize
There are a number of topics that work as turn offs to most woman these include:
- Sports
- Hunting
- Video Games
This doesn’t mean that women disapprove of these interests, but rather they don’t work to present you in the best light. In terms of sports, the prospective woman might stereotype you as someone who is a sports nut who only wants to talk about sports and is only interested in doing sports related activities. Most women are not interested in getting involved with a sports nut.
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